Sunday, May 23, 2010

Would you invite to your child's birthday party?

a member of your ex husbands family if you were not friends with them? They really only see her on holidays.
Would you invite to your child's birthday party?
If there is any animosity between yourself and this other person, then it might be best not to invite them. It is YOUR child's birthday, and you are all entitled to enjoy it in a relaxed and fun environment. When it comes to social functions, many people from time to time invite certain people out of obligation. Having said this, does your child want them to attend? If the decision is entirely yours to make, then decide how you will feel about having them there, and make the decision that feels right in your heart. If your child is old enough to make the choice, then please take their thoughts and feelings into consideration also.
Reply:Depends I guess. Are you still friendly with your ex and is he close to that relative. What I mean by are you and your ex friendly is: will he be at the party or doing something for the child himself,because if he doesn't plan to attend you have no reason to invite his relatives as they will probably do their own thing for the birthday. However,if he is going and this will be the only party and he wants the person there you should allow it,if he's not close to the relative suggest a family dinner ect. with the child,father and certain relatives for a chance to celebrate the birthday. How does your daughter feel? If she wants this relative to attend please allow it as it's her party. Best of Luck!
Reply:Invite whomever the kid wants invited, within reason. If you are inviting extended family then invite them as well. If you only see them at the holidays it will look more like a "gift hunt" so don't invite them. The party is supposed to be about the kid so keep it as clean as possible. If inviting (or not inviting) this person is going to cause issues (with your ex) then do what seems to be easiest. Since you rarely see them anyway I doubt that they will come.
Reply:i would ask your kid if they wanted this person at their party. i would make sure that your child is comfortable with that person at their party. it is a party and you do not want any fights or disagreements to occur. if this person loves your child they will understand what ever you choose to do. have a good and fun party.
Reply:No I don't think I would if I only see her on holidays. It is obvious she is not close with you or your child so why invite her to a birthday party?
Reply:Depends on how your kid feels about it. Is it someone they'd like at their party?
Reply:No, why should I.
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