Is it rude to not invite people you work with but don't know very well to your wedding?

I work with either old ladys or stuck up girls at work i have only worked here since febuary and i only have made friends with a handful of people since a lot of them are old Would it be rude to only invite my friends?? I work at a small hospital with a bunch of old mean nurses and i only get along with the aids what would you do?
Is it rude to not invite people you work with but don't know very well to your wedding?
It's not rude. I didn't feel close enough to anyone at my work to invite, plus none of them knew "us", they just knew me.
Reply:You can invite anyone you wish to your wedding....but keep in mind, if you invite some of the people from work and not all of them, there may be a few ladies who harbor resentment towards that. It may or may not happen - I know myself that I simply didn't invite anybody that I worked with. Made it a lot easier.
Reply:It's not rude at all. I've worked at my place for 7 years and didn't invite loads of people! It comes down to friends. Whereas I work with them, I'm not good 'friends' with any of them and I only wanted people I cared about at my wedding! It may sound mean but at the end of the day I had to pay for all the guests so I only wanted people there who meant something to me x
Reply:It's not rude, but be advised that the others may treat you even worse if they are "mean or stuck up" - people are harsh. Sometimes it is better to do a "all or none" policy at work - if you have only been there since Feb. how close are you to these gals? Or invite them %26amp; tell them to keep their mouths shut about it, to not make things worse for you.
Reply:well if it was me I would only invite my friends because why invite people you dont know well or dont really care for they arent going to care at the end of the day and it is what u feel comfortable with so invite your friends and people you know and feel comfortable with this is a special day for u so u should celebrate with people who u know and trust and has your best interest at heart thats what i would do if it was me but good luck and congradulation on your wedding ,
Reply:The theory i am trying to use is...if i don't think i will still be friends with them in five years, i'm not inviting them. I'm only inviting 2 people from work because they are the only ones i socialise with outside of work hours.





Its your day. Invite who you want. It doesn't matter what anyone else says.
Reply:It is not rude not to invite people to your wedding if they are not really your friends in anyway. If you don't like em don't invite em. It's your wedding? And if these people are mean, they don't deserve to be there.
Reply:Your wedding is supposed to be about you and your groom it is your day. The people that you invite should be ones that you want to share this joyous occassion with, close friends and family.
Reply:I would only invite the people that you're closest with. I worked closely with over 40 people. There's no way they're all going to be invited to my wedding.
Reply:You can invite who you want there are no rules and you don't have to invite someone out of guilt.
Reply:only invite people u care about or really want u dont have to feel bad by not inviting people u dont really know
Reply:you have to draw the line somenwhere. If you arent close to them then dont invite them! People willl get over it!
Reply:It's not rude. I worked at a company for 4 years and only invited my best friend. Don't worry.
Reply:It's not rude at all. It's your special day to share with people that love and care for you.
Reply:no it not rude .


but if they insist then throw a small treat for them ( just to maintain curtsey)
Reply:No.
Reply:nooo because u can just telll the others that you want a very small wedding
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